Portrait of the narcissist as a con artist


The pathological narcissist is described in the DSM-IV (1994), by Kohut (1977) and by Kernberg (1990). Kernberg (1990) notes that “the main characteristics of these narcissistic personalities are grandiosity, extreme self-centeredness, and a remarkable absence of interest in and empathy for others in spite of the fact that they are so very eager to obtain admiration and approval from other people” (228-229). He further describes such persons as being very envious of others’ possessions or other’s apparent contentment, emotionally shallow, seemingly unable to understand complex emotions exhibited by others and as displaying few emotions and being capable of feeling sad or depressed. What may look like depression when they are disappointed by others is anger, resentment and a desire for revenge instead of genuine sadness.
The Destructive Narcissistic Pattern by Nina W. Brown  


 Salvador Dalí ~ Metamorphosis of Narcissus, 1937
[Tate Modern, London]


Soon after this painting was completed, Dali published a poem and essay entitled The Metamorphosis of Narcissus in which he related that in Catalonia the phrase “To have a bulb in the head” means to suffer from a psychological complex.  The painter then went on to state that “If a man has a bulb in the head it might break into flower at any moment.  Narcissus!” 
The Life and Masterworks of Salvador Dalí by Eric Shanes

The Queen’s Croquet Ground

Salvador Dali ~ [from illustrations for Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland], 1969

A large rose-tree stood near the entrance of the garden: the roses growing on it were white, but there were three gardeners at it, busily painting them red. Alice thought this a very curious thing, and she went nearer to watch them…

The Aphrodisiac Telephone

1938
➔  Little Augury

I cannot understand why human beings should be so little individualized, why they should behave with such great collective uniformity. I do not understand why when I ask for a grilled lobster at a restaurant, I’m never served a cooked telephone. ~ Salvador Dalí

Dalí + Harpo

Salvador Dalí sketching Harpo Marx  [Los Angeles Examiner, February 17th 1937]

I met Harpo for the first time in his garden. He was naked, crowned with roses, and in the center of a veritable forest of harps (he was surrounded by at least five hundred harps). He was caressing, like a new Leda, a dazzling white swan, and feeding it a statue of the Venus de Milo made of cheese, which he grated against the strings of the nearest harp. An almost springlike breeze drew a curious murmur from the harp forest. In Harpo’s pupils glows the same spectral light to be observed in Picasso’s. — Salvador Dalí  “Surrealism in Hollywood  Harper’s Bazaar, 1937  

The Marx Brothers
The Dali Museum